A Love Affair with Money

Love and money are the same frequency! Whether it’s love or money, everyone manifests. Some manifest abundance. Others manifest lack. If you don’t have what you want in either love or money (or both), examine your thoughts and emotions. Ask yourself, “How did I manifest this?”

Throughout our life, most of us have had a love/hate relationship with money. I believe it’s important to have a loving relationship with money and what better way than to have a love affair with money.  Many of us say we love money; but when we get it, we can’t keep it, or we can’t let go of it. Either way, we don’t have a balanced loving relationship with money.

To examine your beliefs and values about money – where you are now and where you want to be – envision a first date with “Money”. Let’s imagine you are going on match.com, or more recently Bumble or Tinder, to find your ideal money mate. You are very anxious to develop a relationship with this energetic source of joy. Now that you have chosen to enroll in finding this money source, you can move to the next level of developing a relationship. Before you start a love affair, you must go on a first date. Let’s create a fantasy conversation with “Money”.

Imagine, you are meeting at a restaurant for your first date. You are feeling a little nervous. You introduce yourself and start with small talk. As the date progresses, Money starts to ask you some deeper questions. “Why do you want to be with me? What do you value about me? How do you talk to me when I am with you? How do you talk about me when I am not there? How do you plan to keep me interested and coming back to you?”

I have done this scenario with groups where one person is Money and the other person is on the date with Money and answering the questions. It brings up a lot of emotion and deep subconscious thoughts. To understand your relationship with money, you need to tap into the many feelings, fears and beliefs that are deep within you.

Abundance is a natural state. There is no shortage except in your own mind. When you apply the principles of receiving, infinite love and money is potentially available to all. Your relationship to money is connected to all your relationships. Wealth is not just about money, it is a state of mind. It involves being rich in every area of your life including your work, financial, relationships, family, health, and spiritual life. Wealth comes from understanding and engaging the emotions behind the money. As my sister, the CPA, says, “Every decision we make . . . has financial ramifications.”

I choose to live in joy with the abundance of love and money in my life. As I deepen my love affair and relationship with money, a new Adventure begins . . .